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wednesday january 9th 2012@5:03am agreed order appointing guardian scott renshaw din

IN
THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE TWENTIETH JUDICIAL CIRCUIT

IN AND FOR COLLIER COUNTY,
FLORIDA

PROBATE DIVISION

 

 

IN
RE: GUARDIANSHIP OF,

 

MARY
JEAN ZISKA,

 

File
Number:               06-116-GA

                                    06-117-GA

 

 

       AGREED ORDER APPOINTING LIMITED GUARDIAN
OF THE PROPERTY

                                                                             

Regarding the property of Mary Jean Ziska, (the Ward), coming on
this day to be heard and it appearing to the Court that the Ward is
incapacitated as found by order of this Court and that it is necessary for a Limited
Guardian to be appointed for the property and estate of the Ward, and the Court
having jurisdiction and being otherwise fully advised, the Court finds:

1.                 
That
Guardian – Applicant Lucius Scott Renshaw is qualified by the agreement of all
parties to serve and is hereby appointed as Limited Guardian of the property of
Mary Jean Ziska.      

2.                 
The
burden of establishing to the satisfaction of this Court the incapacity of the
Ward to exercise the following rights has been met and the following rights are
removed from the Ward:

a.
                    To sue and defend
lawsuits. 

b.                 
To
make decisions regarding the Ward’s right to contract.    



c.                  
To
manage all assets of the Ward including real and personal property.

3.                 
The
nature of the instant guardianship is limited and it is necessary to appoint a limited
guardian of the property of the Ward.

4.         Lucius Scott Renshaw has taken the
prescribed oath and filed the designation of resident agent.  The Court orders that Lucius Scott Renshaw
shall be required to enter into a bond in the amount of WAIVED payable to the Governor of the State of Florida and to his
successor in office.   Conditioned on the faithful performance of all
duties by the guardian the letters of guardianship shall be issued.

7.                 
The
Court finds that the Ward has not, prior to incapacity, created any has valid
advance directive pursuant to Chapter 765, Florida Guardianship Law.  If any such advance directive is shown to exist
with respect to Mary Jean Ziska then the Limited Guardian shall exercise no
authority over the surrogate until further order of this Court.

 



ORDERED
this               day of                                   , 2013.

 

 

______________________________________

                                                                                    Hon.
Lauren Brodie, Circuit Court Judge

                                                                                    Twentieth
Judicial Circuit Court

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

cc:           Diane
M. Simmons-Burnside,, Esquire

                Shayna
Cavanaugh, Esquire

                Larry
Pivacek, Esquire

                Lucius
Scott Renshaw, Guardian – Applicant

                Mary
Jean Ziska, Ward

 

Order Appointing Limited Guardian
(Florence Miller)

Wednesday january9th 2012 @ 5:02am email to larry concerning mess up of documents foro guardian take over of scott renshaw

Dear Larry,                                                                                                        January
9, 2013

I just opened the word documents for the guardianship
assignment of scott renshaw  to assist me
with  the Homeowners Association and I am
very disturbed by the letters that has clearly overstepped the boundary of the
limited guardianship  for the purpose of
assisting me it is actually taking away my rights. 

It seems that you have no recollection of the  absolute   abuse, neglect
and misconduct by Patrick weber and some con-artist who were trying to take
away monies… trying to harm my independence and who actually  caused me to never leave my home! 

Let me refresh your memory….   

The limited guardianship of Patrick weber was limited to
just the assistance he was supposed to give me with finances ie obtaining increase
of finances in the social security, and assistance in rectifying  all the  damage done  by identity thieves, criminal mortgage personnel
and in assisting in obtaining an equity line of credit  to assit in the payment of the back .  In the email I wrote to you and to the judges
and to the  probate court and to the  main judge in Fort Myers, ( rosemburg)  I outlined the points( in 36 pages of emails
and documents )   that were established  Patrick was to assist.  He did not assist and he instead harmed my
life because of his abuse of power….That was the reason I requested to have him
removed. Don’t  you remember  any of this should I resend you the emails I had
send or had put in my website www.,mysearchforjustice.com?

If you remember when I wrote you and Patrick a budget I had
asked for my independence back but Patrick wanted to get paid to be my guardian
and said he was going to help which he did not … The letter which outlines all
the rigts to be taken away from me is not accurate and very abusive in nature

I have and will continue to pay all my bills and Scott is
not to be in charge of all my finances. 
He is also not to be in charge of my social surroundings,  or my home residence….  There were  ten -12 points that Patrick was to assist in
helping and those points should be mentioned in the document and what Scott
is  supposed to assist… based on  fixing what Patrick did not do  to help in my life…..   actually
you used those points  to have him
removed remember? The letter I wrote to the police department?

Just getting your email  I started coughing and the anxiety almost made
me throw up at 3am this morning .. and of course  I will not be able  to sleep 
now….  I hate all of this…..
instead of anyone actually protecting m y rights and instead of anyone helping
me they have only harmed my life, and harmed me!  All of this all the hell for the past
thirteen years because some idiot liked sticking his dick into karne kahle…. And
she cheated on her husband  when I babysat
e for her 3 month old son greyson…..and most recently finding out about the  identity theft .. the money stolen off my mortgage….
All for money…. They ruined my life for thirteen years all for money…. I should
have never trusted Patrick weber or anyone associated with him  or the ohio state scum….

So  here are the
points that need to be addressed and put in the  legal documents    where  scot is supposed to assist in the limited
guardianship…. Do you  remember  the limited was the major part of this entire  document?   With Patrick
it was to help in obtaining legal counsel….. and to help in  creating a assistance in mediating a
settlement for  me and the HOA. 

I need to speak with you immediately and will start calling
you at 8am. Until you answer and this is rectified.  I can’t  believe how much this is messed up and how far
off you are on the legal documents what the hell is up?    I am getting scared that I will have a bunch
of criminals harm my home ownership again because  of how wrong this is…. It is almost borderline
criminal  the way it is written…. Do I need
to actually tell you the objectives of a guardian and a guardianship lawyer?   This is
so wrong it is as if you were never my lawyer…. Or  forgot how upset I get  when my 
rights that I already had and use perfectly fine are being threatened…..
  what the hell happened to your protection of
my rights? Are you still supposed to be helping me or are you also helping he
HOA? I am really upset! Contact me asap sincerely mary  jean ziska

 

 

 

 

 

 

  Mary Jean Ziska                                                                                                                                                                           
5632 Whisperwood Blvd. #1601                                                                                                                                                       Naples,
Florida  34110                                                                                                                           
                                             August
26, 2012

 

Lawrence Samuel Pivacek                                                                                                                                             
Florida Bar ID:  995258                                                                                                                                                                    2262
Royal Ln.                                                                                   
                                                                                                  Naples,
Florida   341125-3233

 

Dear Larry: 

Enclosed is a package consisting of 15 documents (listed
below).  Each package contains
information and documentation composed of letters and emails sent to my
guardianship lawyer:   Larry Pivacek, and
my guardian:   Patrick Weber, over the
course of this past year’s events.  These
documents   provide evidence of the
issues and problems encountered during this past year’ experiences in dealing
with the judicial and guardianship departments in Collier County.   

The purpose of 
guardianship assistance 
especially within my “limited guardianship”  is to 
assist  in  only legal 
and  financial  matters. 
Definition of a guardian:   a
person who has been appointed by the court to act on behalf of a ward’s person,
property, or both. (FS 744.102(9)).  The
guardian may exercise only  those rights
that have been removed from the ward and delegated to the guardian F.S 744.361(1)).  The limited guardianship is designed to
encourage the most self-reliance and independence possible and to  be the least restrictive alternative to a
complete or plenary guardianship.   A
guardian who is appointed to manage the incapacitated person’s financial
affairs must protect and preserve the incapacitate person’s assets and manage
the assets as a “prudent person” would in managing the financial affairs of
another person.  The attorney for the
alleged incapacitated person must represent the alleged incapacitated person’s
expressed wishes, unless they are contrary to the Florida Rules governing
attorney’s conduct ( F.S. 744.102(1)).     

 The oath taken by
guardians( as per FS 744.347) “prior to exercising authority every guardian
must take an oath that he or she will faithfully perform his or her duties as a
guardian”  

I am writing this letter to 
enlist the assistance, of  the
lawyers,  judges, congressmen, and   government 
official in rectifying  
consequences of  many
transgressions that  are harming my
homeownership,  my life my civil
liberties and rights.   I am recording
the events and supplementing the events with 
the emails and  the letters sent
to both Patrick Weber and to Larry Pivacek 
during  this past year while
I  have been under their control  as per 
the  limited guardianship of  Patrick Weber and my guardianship lawyer
Larry Pivacek. 

 

 

 

 

I will list the points and problems in numerical order.  These points catalogue topics that I have
encountered with the guardianship assistance program and address my personal
experiences as follows:  

1.            Limited  or at times 
no contact personally between guardian and guardianship lawyer
attempted   through emails, telephone
conversations and personal meetings. 
Responses were few,   if at all. 

*I rarely received answers from Patrick Weber when I emailed
or called his office.  I never received
notice from him as to the court dates and what he was going to say or do in
those court cases concerning  the HOA, or
any of my welfare concerns.  I thought I
could turn to him for assistance  and was
supposed to  let him know of any
injustices so that he would be able to 
remedy  the  situation. 
Examples such as:   When I told
him that the front gate of my condo claimed that the sticker on my car was
disabled due to the non- payment of the HOA fees( which is still a case that is
still in the courts)HE DID NOTHING!  When
I found the telephone number and contact information ,  for Wels Fargo corporate that would be able
to make the bank a co- guardian and 
assist  in  banking accounts and  would with court approval be able to help in
attaining  the  equity line of credit  from my condo, HE DID NOTHING!  When I alerted him to the fraud on my credit
report,    including additional mortgages
amounting to over $800,000.00, HE DID NOTHING!  
When I found documents that David stern 
had lost my original note which with proper  litigation would have in itself,  cleared the title on my condo HE DID NOTHING!
When I alerted him and filed police reports detailing items including $1000.00
that had been stolen HE DID NOTHING! 

2.            Guardianship
monitoring by the Florida courts  was
nonexistent.  Annual reports/ visits are
neither scheduled nor completed .  No
reports/ results  given to  ward. 

*Patrick Weber has only been to my home once  and that was years ago.  The reports detailing  my expenses and the bills( I myself pay
online) I gave to him the first meeting of last year.  In my expenses I outlined  the bills I had paid in the past, and the
estimated billed expenses including electric, car insurance,  cable /internet service etc. .  He should 
have  had a complete understanding
of my cost of living.  His
negotiations  concerning the HOA dues hat
need to be paid   are very unreasonable!    If he took the time to even look at
the  monthly budget and expenses  used, he would   have understood that  the medical disability  alone doesn’t cover all normal expenses.   I brought that fact to this attention   at our first meeting when  I wrote a letter requesting my independence
and was talked out of it by both Patrick and Larry on the grounds that his
assistance as my lawyer and my guardian was paramount in my defense for the
foreclosure  suit and paramount in
attaining  the equity line of credit,
and  any additional benefits at  this 
point in time of my life.  I do
not believe that he submitted any reports and if he did he never gave me any
copies nor provided me even with 
the  information  or written documentation. 

 

3.            In
addition to the  initial plan , the  annual guardianship reports must be filed
within ninety (90)days after the last day of the anniversary month of the
guardian’s appointment.  This report must
include the annual guardianship plan and the annual financial return.  All guardianship reports must be filed in a
timely manner with the probate division of the circuit court.  The ward except in certain  circumstances, must be served with a copy as
well.  Failure to file annual  reports may result in sanctions against the
guardian ( FS 744.367) Written objections to any portion of the annual report
may be filed  by an interested person
including the ward within thirty (30) days after the annual report has been
filed.  If such an objection has been
filed, the  court must set the matter for
hearing and conduct the hearing within 
(30) days of the date that the objection was filed ( FS
744.367(4),(7)   

*No action plan for this past year was  given to me! 
If one had ever even  been
written.   No report, or plan of action
after development was written up and given to judge or to ward.   Even worse, not following through with any
of the items discussed at first meeting 
which should have been included in the 
plan of action for this year of limited guardianship were ever
addressed.    To have a copy of the
annual review of the guardianship report and plan as per the rights of the
incapacitated  ward that  are retained by the  ward (FS 744.3215(1)) No sanctions were ever
imposed upon my guardian or guardianship lawyer 
due to the r failures in my case! 

 

4.            Limited
help by guardianship lawyer to  assist in
my expressed wishes  and to contact my
guardian  for  current situations.

Minor assistance : 
trying to get response from guardian by contacting guardian lawyer,  address problem with condo association,
stopping of  guard gate pass, fraud from
the companies of  Comcast, Empire Today,
and  Sears.  Having to file police reports when money and
items were stolen from my home   I
attempted to contact Larry Pivacek on numerous occasions via phone messages and
emails to tell him what my guardian was not doing, situations that were not
being even addressed, and requesting his assistance making the guardian at the
very least answer my concerns. Most occasions I received the same email back,
telling me that  he does  not handle anything to do with the  foreclosure case only the guardianship
case.  Many times the requests were  to have the guardian actually do his job,
such as assist in   increasing the  medical disability payments, or even
contacting the guard gate so my pass would again work,  or to call my bank concerning the equity line
of credit!  Or to assist in clearing  my title when 
all the fraud was found, or even 
for me to even get a different 
guardian…. One who actually did his job in protecting  my rights and cared about my concerns for
my  life! I’m sure as a guardianship
lawyer he was supposed to  do more than
meet with  me  at the initial  meeting 
at Patrick’s  office!   The minor assistance received by my guardian
and my guardianship lawyer has left me 
feeling very neglected  and
not  legally represented in the best
possible manner.      When I could  not  
get assistance from my guardian ship lawyer,  especially to have my guardian removed, I
emailed  the police, sheriff,  probate office, Then I  went further, emailing troubleshooter channel
( 4)  and other the local television
stations, channel  (2) and
channel(7)   to alert them of the
misconduct.  I contacted the Florida Bar
Association, the local Collier County Bar Association, to see what I needed to
do to file a formal complaint. I sent emails to 
rick Scott, the governor and to the congressmen  Connie Mack and  Cliff Sterns 
to notify them of the  problems
with the judicial system concerning the guardianship  cases in Collier County especially  mine! 
I have  sent sealed signed receipt
packages containing the 15 documents 
to:  Judge Cynthia A Pivacek,
Judge Vincent Murphy, Judge Elizabeth Krier, Congressman  Cliff Sterns, Congressman Connie Mack,  The Florida Bar Association, Governor Rick
Scott, Collier County Bar 
Association,  Attorney  Gloria Fletcher, Attorney Larry Pivacek, and
Attorney Patrick Weber.  My hope is
that  everyone will receive this
information  and   the negligence  will stop and actions can be taken to rectify
the grave injustice that has occurred 
which may result in me losing 
my  home! 

  

5.            Fraud
upon the court:   as per the  waiving the statute of limitations/
attempting to use his friend to get a loan from regions bank but then not
getting any real loan….   to pay the  equity line of credit….telling me to keep him
for my guardian  for this entire  year, 
I believe  these were  questionable ethical concerns and possible
conflicts of interest  but the  attempt 
to  make money by being paid
through the court system as a guardian, when none of the  duties of a guardian were being performed by
my guardian!  This was a clear
misrepresentation of  his duties.   His 
concern for my welfare  as my
guardian  is not visible.  He is 
using the courts  to his advantage
for his payment of services rendered when nothing is being accomplished.   He should have  been able 
to clear most of these situations within a  years’ time given his “connections” and
“resources” . It appears to me,  as if he
is purposely trying to allow me to lose my home, either through his negligence
as a lawyer or as guardian or as both! 
His lack of  honesty in correctly
presenting the facts of the cases, obtaining correct legal representation if he
did not know how to defend the case, and actually helping the HOA to  try to win their case when in fact he is
supposed to be representing me….  I
believe  that Patrick Weber committed
grievous injustices toward me, and the court system through.

 FRAUD UPON THE  COURT: 
“In the United States, when an officer of the court is found to have
fraudulently presented facts  to the  court so that the court is impaired in the
impartial performance of its legal task the act known as fraud upon the court
is a crime  deemed so severe and
fundamentally  opposed to the operation
of justice that it is not subject to any statue of limitations.  Officers of the court include lawyers,
judges, referees, and those appointed guardian ad litem, parenting time
expeditors, mediators, rule 144 neutrals evaluators administrators special
appointees and any others whose influence are part of the judicial
mechanism.        

 

6.            Rights of
the ward:  The guardian’s role is to
balance the protection and care provided to the ward with genuine respect for
the encouragement of the independence still exercisable by the ward. 

Patrick Weber did not balance the protection and care
provided with respect for the encouragement of the  ward: 
One instance where Patrick Weber 
definitely  did not represent my
best interest occurred at the court house. 
He told the HOA he would waive the statute of limitations (which had
almost run out) so that he would be allowed to still foreclose on my home.  In the one year period   the delay had been that t Patrick Weber even
though my guardian and a lawyer had no knowledge in how to defend a foreclosure
suit.  As my guardian he was required to
obtain competent legal counsel and in one years’ time had not been   able to obtain a lawyer with knowledge of
foreclosure defense.  Also within this
year, the other continued delay had been the ruling on the need to have  a guardian. 
This ruling had not been determined. 
I met with two nurses   and one
doctor as per the requirements of the Florida statutes 744.  The doctor said he was not satisfied.  He wanted me to have 12 hours of tests
costing approx.   $1500.00.   I’m not certain but I do believe that a
delay also occurred because Patrick petitioned the court for money to pay for
the unnecessary tests.     I thought this
was   a horrible waste of money when  the guardianship was  strictly 
for a limited guardianship and 
only encompassed   legal and  financial matters!    The delays were legitimate concerns  and if the statute of limitations had run out
or not , Patrick Weber’s concern should have been   my part of the case not on changing  the 
law to fit the  HOA’s motivation
for  their lawsuit!  In addition after the case, he winked at me
and laughed  when I was upset at his
remarks to backer act me, and  when I
mentioned that the doctor (who  I could
not find  listed in the directory of the
AMA) did not even know how to  apply a
pressure cuff when taking my blood pressure and after putting it on  backwards, and not being able to get  reading, he immediately  reapplied the cuff  to my same arm allowing for a very inaccurate
reading!  The point I was making was that
Patrick Weber laughed at my remarks about the ir0ny of the incompetent doctor
giving me a competency test!   

  Due to his direct
action of telling the judge he would l waive the statute of limitations,  a date of sale for July 18th 2012 was set by
the court.  He then proceeded to threaten
that I would be backer acted because I stood up and told him he wasn’t allowed
to waive the statute of limitations. I later emailed him legal definitions
consisting of 25 pages including the definition of statute of limitations.  Prior to his actions, we had discussed his
asking for a continuance primarily because of his lack of obtaining
counsel   on my behalf to defend the
foreclosure suit!    He did not  represent my best interest  afterward the final line of the agreed  order mentioned that  he accepted service  and will file a responsive pleading within 30
days from the date of  this order!   The “Agreed Order” case no. 07-3121-CC:   1- canceled the foreclosure sale that he
allowed to happen (Thank God!)  2-  It vacated the final summary judgment to
defendant Mary Jean Ziska.   3- motion to
vacate default  a s to defendant Mary
jean Ziska was granted   all of those
points seems to  in my favor and rightly
so since the entire foreclosure suit was not only  served to a person who was declared
incompetent at the time of service, but 
the guardian was not notified, no legal representation was
provided,    and everything was done
improperly! 

 The 4th point  for the 
case no 07-3221-cc mentions that the defendants guardian agrees to
accept service and will file  a
responsive pleading within (30) days. The date 
was June 21st 2012.  Patrick Weber
should have not accepted service on the foreclosure  on my home for two very important reasons
:  1- he still does not know how to
defend a foreclosure suit    2- he has
still not obtained legal representation on my behalf!   Hi primary purpose was to protect me from
corrupt lawyers  (hence the   guardianship included his assistance in
legal matters)…. But he himself did not protect me in the legal arena but
instead his actions directly adversely affected my legal outcomes and are still
affecting my life through his legal misdealing’s  done on purpose for my legal cases!  

 

7.            Nonexistence
of the annual review report and plan for this past year.  Not following through with any of the items
discussed at first meeting that was to be included in plan of action for this
year of limited guardianship.   To have a
copy of the annual review of the guardianship report and plan as per the rights
of the incapacitated  ward that  are retained by the  ward (FS 744.3215(1))

a.            Items/topics
that were  discussed that needed to be
fixed:

1.            Increase
medical  disability money to help
increase income.  Not only did I need the
additional  money for living expenses but
Patrick weber said I needed the 
verifiable  steady income to
obtain the equity line of credit that would be established to pay the HOA fees.

2.            Obtain
the loan or equity line of credit from my condo for the HOA fees.

3.            Get a forensic
audit for the title  of my condo  and any additional  documentation necessary to  establish 
my title as free of debt due to the 
past fraud from multiple mortgage 
companies, the loss of my original note, etc.  and 
clear it of  any fraud .   

4.            Defend
this foreclosure suit by finding a great lawyer who knew  how to defend a foreclosure suit.

5.            He was to
help me clear up the fraudulent items  of
identity theft on my credit report thus increasing my credit score.  This was 
also done  to eventually help with
the  HOA payment.

6.            He was
supposed to help protect me from fraud and criminals who have preyed on my life
and on me  however I had at least three
instances of  con-artist related
incidences  by repair men who
allegedly   were from Sears, sales reps
who were allegedly  from Empire Today,
and actual theft from Comcast! I have since 
reported the  scams  and theft to the BBB and to Pam Bond’s office
at the attorney general’s office!    I
also had to  have a roommate removed when  $1000.00 was stolen  and have had to have  a supplemental identity theft report
submitted and accepted to the police department when pictures,  information from my external hard drive, blog
posts from www.mysearchforjustice, style=”mso-spacerun:yes”>  were
stolen!  Patrick weber did nothing to protect
me or my property and I alone had to file 
police reports and  no resolution
has been found in the Comcast case, or the police reported missing items!

7.            He is in
charge  of assisting me in legal matters,
however  noting has been done  to instill any justice for the harassing,
bulling and my eventual nervous breakdown at the hands  of Karen Kael and her  group. 
The $5000.00 medical bill is still on my credit report  and harming my credit due to Karen  Kahel and 
her bullying  friends from Ohio
State.  Patrick Weber did nothing to
assist in even  initiating a law suit for
the intentional infliction of emotional distress that  led to the need for a guardian  and protection from harm and abuse  and 
assistance  in legal and financial
matters! 

8.            As for
additional law suits, Patrick weber also did not  even initiate a  law suit to gain restitution for
the$3000.00   monies taken by Ian Stein  during the 
renegotiations of the Aegis refinancing .

9.            David
Stern’s paperwork  indicated that my
mortgage note had been lost, and the paperwork involved was extremely
corrupt   and I needed legal  assistance 
in making sure the  title was free
and clear for my condo. The additional assistance  of 
a  true professional lawyer was
needed for   this mess to be cleared
through  the  courts.  
Patrick Weber was to have the resources 
to accomplish this but he never did anything in this years’ time to
remedy the  situation!  

10.          Patrick  said he would also  negotiate with the condo association as per
the balances owed and since it was fraudulent to actually serve paperwork to
the ward instead of the guardian,  he
assured me that the  attorney’s fees and
the   interest should legally be
waived.  Now that the actual first
foreclosure suit was dismissed I believe that 
those expenses are not my responsibility however ,  I keep having 
people call me  on the phone to
threaten me with  amounts and settlements
that are absolutely unreasonable!  I have
had one person say that ah Patrick weber made a settlement for $62,000.00 and
wanted $5000.00 down and  $500.00
payments a month!   The $500.00 a month
is more than I receive at all for my disability payments each  month!  
No true guardian who is aware of 
my monthly budge t and expenses should have ever come up with such an
outrageous payment!                                

     

 

8.            “To be
restored to capacity at earliest possible time” as per the  rights of the incapacitated ward that are
retained by the ward ( FS 744.3215(1))

When I first met with Patrick Weber and Larry Pivacek in
2011, I asked for guidance and direction concerning the status of the
guardianship case.  My first request from
them was advice and their recommended plan of action for my guardianship
status.  I believed at that point in time
I was possibly ready to have my independence restored to full  capacity. 
Upon their advice,  and my limited
funds to retain council I maintained the same limited guardianship status.  I 
needed    legal representation
which would  produce a result for  my best interest  in the foreclosure  case 
and in numerous additional issues and 
problems still unresolved.  These
situations ,  would have been  overwhelming to handle all by myself so  I 
depended on   both Larry and
Patrick  to do what they said they were
going to do and legally represent me.  
Enclosed is the letter I presented to the two nurses and the doctor and
the two lawyers the day of the evaluation. 
I also brought pictures of my living accommodations, my  ability to take care of myself  and my surroundings, my budget and  current status of the bills  which encompassed my  living expenses!    This limited guardianship   was to aid in areas we discussed and I
trusted them to be participants in helping to rectify and remedy   the worst experiences of my life!  Having any type of guardianship still means I
am deprived of certain rights and trusting that these individuals delegated by
the court system be diligent in their effort to assist me.  I have experienced no  support system that makes me feel that
my  wishes and best interest are
being  considered  and am completely disappointed in the  entire year of guardianship where nothing  was 
remedied, where  negligence  was persistent and    prevalent and where my trust in justice and
an honest legal system is being tested and questioned.         

 

9.            To be
treated humanely with dignity and respect 
and to be protected against abuse, 
neglect, and  exploitation.    As per the 
rights of the incapacitated ward that are retained by the ward (
FS.744.3215(1))

a.            Threats
of being backer- acted by lawyer 
when  ward standing up for
rights  and when lawyer said he would
disregard/waive the statute of limitations for 
foreclosure. 

b.            Winking
and  laughing  regarding 
the  doctor  who 
was to give final evaluation  that
would determine  guardianship
status. 

c.             No
reply  or contact  regarding emails, letters and phone calls.

d.              

 

10.          To remain
as independent as possible including having 
preference as to place and standard do living honored  as per the rights of the incapacitated
ward  that are retained by the ward( FS
744.3215(1)).

I have maintained my independence by residing  in my own condo (5632 Whisperwood Blvd. 1601
Naples Florida 34110) since  1999.  I worked on three different businesses while
living here:  a faux painting business:
(M&M Decorative Painting);  a
babysitting business: ( A Tender Loving Care Service) ; an etiquette school:
(  A TLC Prep) My choice for living
accommodations is to reside in the condo 
that I  selected with my father
and mother in 1999 and where  I moved
into my condo  April 1999!  I am very upset  that my home ownership is being  threatened by allowing guardians and lawyers
to make decisions  about a “deal
  with the   HOA. 
The amount of monies they are telling the HOA I will pay each month as a
settlement is more than my current income, does not allow for any  normal bills to be paid such as electric,
gas, car insurance, toilet paper and tampons ! 
It does not allow for additional HOA fees to be paid which will create
the same situation   of unpaid HOA fees
all over again!  They are single handedly
and very insidiously setting me up for failure and for the loss of my
home!    This is my condo, only my
condo!  I am the person who selected the
white tile,  and has had this residence
as my home address since 1999!  I have
had many plans for my residence and for how I wanted to live in my residence….
and for the past ten years my life has been on hold while I have had to clean
up one mess after another and still nothing is completely rectified!  My wishes are 
to have  everything fixed and to
once again be able to decorate my condo, plan my life and live out my wishes
and dreamed for my future  minus all the
problems!    My guardian and lawyer for
my guardianship should know this but I don’t believe they have actually asked
me,   and I know for certain  we have never sat  down to plan out how  not only 
how  past can be remedied but how
the future will be mapped out and accomplished!

 

11.          To receive
prudent  financial management of  his  or
her  property and to be informed how his
or her property is being managed as per the 
rights of the incapacitated ward that are retained by the ward ( FS
744.321(1))

To be certain, I do not believe that given  the current situation and my  financial 
income budget, that neither Patrick weber nor Larry Pivacek   would have created the same  deal for them given the same  monetary circumstances!  I understand the basic principal of
debt:  more money has to go out than
comes into a household…. Therefore  at
the basis of their plan for repayment of the HOA more money  ( $500.00) just for the repayment of the HOA
fees would be going out than  the(
$465.00) that  is brought  into my household per month!   There is no one that  would agree to such a deal and both these
people are supposed to be standing up for my rights in the  financial 
department… it is unthinkable 
that such a travesty should occur!  
Are they taking advantage of their power to handle financial matters? In
fact, the lump sum that Patrick Weber decided upon is outrageous!  If I had $5000.00 for a lump sum  to give the HOA I would have rather spend it
on a lawyer who was able to defend the foreclosure,  to reduce the 
amount owed and to actually practice law in my favor!   A decision such as that would have been in
my best interest.  I am not living an
opulent lifestyle, over this past year  I
have had to cut my own hair to save money, 
take whole milk and water it down 
to  make it  last longer, I have had to  water down shampoo, and conditioner… have had
to  forgo shopping  for 
any extras  for myself and have
only spent money I have saved for  my
families holiday gifts!  I went for an
entire year without any air-conditioning which was really difficult when the
weather was  very hot and humid.  I did all of this to limit my budget and  live within my means!    I do not have a cell phone, but only use a
magic jack attached to my computer and I only have one cable expense… the
internet for my outside  communication
!  I am completely disgusted  that the people entrusted to help me  would not 
acknowledge any  of this and make
a deal that  is completely unacceptable
financially!  I know they would not  sacrifice as much as I have and then
make  a 
settlement and payment  schedule
such as the one I am being told 
they  worked out for me….    The power given to guardians  to make decisions that they alone would never
accept but that they accept on behalf of their wards,   to me is unacceptable and borders on
grievous  especially when conditions are
set for failure due to the  outlined  stipulations! 
Such decisions should d be over ruled by a court system that recognizes
that no one person or group of persons should have ultimate power and control
for financial or legal decisions that would harm the ward even if they are a
guardian! 

  

12.          To have
access to the courts, as per the rights of the incapacitated ward that are
retained by the ward  (FS
744.321(1)).  

Patrick Weber  and
Larry Pivacek  have not allowed me to
speak  when  the few times I was in court! I was told to
be quiet to sit down and not  to do or
say anything!   Have emailed the probate
court to request that a new and more qualified guardian be appointed for
my  guardian.  The email however took 22 hours from the time
I emailed it/sent it…. To the time the carbon copy I emailed to myself arrived
in my mail box.  I can only assume that
there was a glitch in my outlook account for that moment  and not some 
hacker preventing me from  access
to the courts!  I am sending this package
to  a number of people in the court
system and will be putting this letter and the contents of the package on the
internet in my website: 
www.mysearchforjustice.com  under
the blog entries once it is mailed!     I will assume that each and every recipient
will receive the original package and all its contents otherwise  not only will 
I not have  access to the  courts, but there would be mail tampering
involved and involvement of felony charges based on mail  fraud/tampering would be:  (FS 817)   
I have  a right  to have access to the court system just as
any other person who does not have a guardian has a right  to be heard by a judge concerning my
life!            

 

13.          To be
represented by counsel: 

As one of my rights as a ward, I have the right to be
defended in any lawsuit by counsel.   I
should say I have a right to have counsel that is competent in defending any
law suit!  I have Larry Pivacek  who is supposed to be my guardianship lawyer,
he is supposed to  represent me
concerning  my guardian.  He has consistently emailed me  every time I email him that he is only my
guardianship lawyer and gives no counsel on any other  topic. 
I have to date not received any counsel from Larry concerning  any guardianship  questions.    
I definitely need to have a lawyer represent me in every  instance who has knowledge of the areas that
are affecting my life, my homeownership, my independence and  every other area   necessary 
for legal representation!    These
areas include:     

a.            Defend
foreclosure suit with qualified lawyer who is competent in defending
foreclosure suite neither brought on by HOA. 
Neither Larry nor Patrick  have
any knowledge on how to defend  a
foreclosure suit!   So  on that basis alone, I need additional
representation for  the various areas
that  are 
currently under unqualified and 
unsatisfactory representation.

There is also a rule on how long a plaintiff can keep open a
foreclosure lawsuit that has no activity. 
The rule says that after 1 year of inactivity, the lawsuit can be
dismissed by the court. The  failure to
prosecute  within one Year,    *The” failure to prosecute within one year”
rule.  If the court  dismisses the lawsuit after one year and
before the bank asks for  a deficiency
judgment the  lender can still file a new
lawsuit and sue just on the  promissory
note unpaid balance .    This valuable
entry from a document I gave to Patrick and Larry in an email.  It was of course ignored, and instead   the Patrick who threatened me, laughed and
winked at me when I was in distress, used the knowledge against me and in favor
of the HOA which set a sale date of July 18th   
for my condo when he had no knowledge of how to defend a foreclosure and  defiantly 
proved his incompetence in regards to this matter by his actions.  These actions 
adversely and directly  affected
my home ownership! !             

   

b.            Reduce
settlement   by qualified lawyer or legal
representative.  Since Patrick Weber or
Larry Pivacek  is not privy to basic
principles of debt, a knowledgeable representative  who can create a settlement that adheres to
my budge may be required!  A
qualified  lawyer who is well versed in
settlement negotiations   is defiantly
required!  I need additional
representation for the various areas that are currently under unqualified and
unsatisfactory representation.     

 

 

14.          To receive
notice of all proceedings related to determination of capacity and guardianship
unless the court finds the incapacitated person lacks the ability to comprehend
the notice.  As per the rights of the
incapacitated ward that are retained by the ward (FS 744. 321(1)). 

Patrick or Larry have not notified me of any of the court
dates or court  appearances.  I received some of  my information from phone messages or
forwarded emails sent by my mother Marion Gregory.  She is not my legal guardian,  nor my guardianship lawyer, nor my
negotiator, nor  is legally able to speak
for me or my wishes or on  my behalf! It
is not her job but the job of my guardian to notify me of any court dates and
the reasons for the court dates!   I have
not been receiving direct emails from Patrick Weber even though I have been
sending him direct emails via his email address at  his office. I receive no response back!   I have only received court documents sent in
the mail.  Last week I  was told that Larry, my guardianship attorney
called my mother to get my address. 
I  would think after being my
guardianship lawyer for the past year he would be privy  to information such as my address! I
thought  my guardian and guardianship
lawyer  would have been required to have
files full of  information on my behalf.    This method of communication has been
unacceptable!   I have resorted to  sending  
emails to other departments in government  for additional  assistance, for information,  and  to
attempt to  get help !   I have even sent emails to the probate
court,  who then told me they were
sending information to the appropriate judges and the lawyers on my behalf. 

Both  Patrick Weber and
Larry Pivacek   don’t appear  to want 
to assist in rectifying any of the situations we discussed upon our
first meeting!    So I will need
additional legal representation to address their replacement as well!    

 

15.          To
determine  how  payments were to be made  to the HOA: 

a.            Use
my  bank as co- guardian:                                                                                                                                
When I first did any research on guardians,/guardianship  I  looked
up (FS 744).   Within the (FS 744) was a
chapter that stated:  “Also a Trust
company, State Bank, National Bank, or Federal Savings and Loan may be a
guardian (FS 744.309(4))  A non –profit
corporation organized for religious or charitable purposes may be appointed as
a guardian ( FS 744.309(5)) “    Under
this ruling  I requested Patrick Weber
have as a co guardian a bank.  I
requested my bank and asked my branch manager for information on  guardianships and trusts.  She gave me a telephone number which I passed
along to Patrick Weber to see what criteria, guidelines and qualifications were
necessary to establish a bank as a guardian. 
To my knowledge, he never even checked on the bank as a guardian. His
negligence cost me an equity line of credit through my bank or any bank that
would have qualified.             

b.            Patrick’s
connection and  Regions  bank loan:   
Patrick Weber  decided to contact
his friend who worked for Regions Bank to assist in making preparations for the
repayment of the HOA.   He did not tell
me who he spoke with concerning the monies. He did not tell me whether it was
to be an equity line of credit, or a loan for the monies.  He did not tell me what the interest rate
would be, or confirm how much payments 
would be each month.  He did not
tell me what the  total amount would be
that  he would try to obtain.  He did not tell me when this loan/ or equity
line of credit  would be ready to use for
the repayment of HOA!  I was told via
hearsay (which means via a phone call from my mother and an email from my
mother!)  that there was a loan that
would have only a payment of $100.00 per month! I was told that I needed to
save  for a balloon payment but that
wouldn’t be for a while…. Then I heard two completely new versions of the
repayment and settlement  for the HOA and
the entire process has been a nightmare!   

c.             Equity
line of credit from my own bank.:  I
asked  Patrick Weber  to check on using my bank for the equity line
of credit .  It is the bank where the
direct deposit for my medical  disability
payment is made.  The bank account from
which  I pay my bills.  The bank account  where if an equity line of credit  existed I would only have to access one
website to make sure that no identity theft or 
problems arose, or where a direct payment  for the 
HOA could be easily monitored and 
carefully maintained!  As far as I
know, Patrick Weber never even checked on the 
options of procuring an equity line of credit from my bank for my
condominium  to repay the HOA fees! 

In conclusion, I am writing to enlist the assistance of the
proper authorities and to call attention to the negligence in completing any of
the initial objectives for this past year 2011-2012 while I have been under
the  direction of my guardian Patrick
Weber and my lawyer for the guardianship Larry Piviach.       The events of this past year should have
produced results allowing for assistance in both financial and legal  state of affairs.   For closure and  remedy to long standing situations.   For accountability, culpability, sanctions
and consequences  where it  is 
warranted.    For adequate
resolution and finality to a multiple 
of  unforgivable
circumstances. 

Thank you for your kind attention to this letter.

Sincerely,

Mary Jean Ziska                                                                                                                                                        5632
Whisperwood Blvd.  #1601                                                                                                         
                                                 Naples
Florida  34110                                                                                                                           
whatabtmary@yahoo.com

       

The enclosures:

1.            Information
and definition for Patrick Weber from Mary Jean Ziska Fri may 25th 2012 @
10:56am

2.            Letter/speech
I gave to Patrick Weber and to the members of the evaluation committee

3.            August
16th @ 2011@ 3:32am (random notes Florida Statutes/guardianship and
foreclosure)

4.            Agreed
Order:  case no. 07-3121-CC

5.            Hi
Patrick,  Once again I am trying to reach
you and keep getting your voice mail. I left a message today June 28th
@12:37pm….

6.            Message
from Mary Jean Ziska August 7th 2012 evening concerning removing my guardian
Wednesday August 8th 2012  11:09am    Dear Larry august 7th 2012 @ 8:11pm

7.            To whom
it may concern:  August  8th 2011 11:20am

8.            From Mary
Jean Ziska (mail to : whatabtmary@gmail.com) Sent Wednesday, August 08 2012
2:30pm  To  Minutes and Records

9.            Fwd.:  message from Mary Jean Ziska august 7th 2012
evening concerning removing my guardian Wednesday 8, 2012 2:47pm

10.          BLOG.MYSEARCHFORJUSTICE.COM:  July 2nd 
email sent to sheriff office as complaint against guardian’s
actions 

11.          Called the
collier clerk of courts today:  august
8th 2012 at 11:30am to request email address for transcript in writing for
court date August 6th 2012 involving the motion for extension of time granted (
20 days were granted)

12.          On Monday
8/6/12, Mary Jean Ziska whatabtmary@yahoo.com      Hi Patrick, I emailed you last year
concerning having a co guardian as a bank….                   

13.          To whom it
may concern:  August 16th 2012 @
3:22pm   Patrick Weber is the guardian of
Mary Jean Ziska.  It is a limited
guardianship restricted for only his assistance in financial and legal
matters.  I have been trying to  report his misconduct

14.          cid@colliersheriff.net   It is now 5:15pm on august 23rd 2012, my
name is Mary jean Ziska and since your 
office is closed  I am emailing
you concerning the group of identity thieving con-artist 

15.          Hi Larry,
August 23rd 2012 @ 9:18pm   replying  to your 
email… I was chatting with magic jack

The revised  series of
documents contained 36 documents in total. 

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december 21st 2012 @ 2:50am christmas card to mom

Dearest mom, Marion Jean Gregory Ziska Gregory…..

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year 2012!

I wish for  my mother…. All the happiness and love a daughter can give…. I  wish for you that  all of your hopes and dreams  will be  realized…  I wish for you, joy and happiness, laughter and love, financial independence , prosperity,  freedom from worries and an abundance of everything your heart desires…. …  a youthful exuberance …in spirit…. Knowing how much you are loved… how  valued you are to all who have known you….  your presence has…. Made such a positive difference in my life…. and I wanted to thank you  for enriching our lives in so many ways…. 

You and dad gave us such an  amazing opportunity  by  taking our entire family to Saudi…( with Aramco…)  to grow up in a very safe environment that enriched our lives soooo much…. But mom. I have to say… . you were the one who  took full advantage of making sure that we were able to go on the trips with you… to see all the magnificent sights … to make lifelong memories … to  have so many varied experiences…  interesting cultures… and  even  exotic foods….

You tell me all the time that you love me more than I will ever know…. and I always want to make sure you know overflows with gratitude  for all that you have done in my life …and  that I want to thank you for everything” more than you will ever know… “   

Dearest mom, I gave you a book  for Mother’s Day a while ago    titled:   A mother’s legacy,  your life story in your  own words the book was separated into different sections the last section entitled “inspiration:   it is a  miracle  how a life can be touched so deeply by one caring gesture, one small kindness at a time.”

For the insert of the book I wrote:  remember this special day… all for you… the loving mixture of family, of memories  family of memories,  and love,  the warmth of a hug… the kiss hello the joy of having loved ones near to celebrate…. knowing you….. and loving you…. we are so  blessed to have had such a gift!

Dear mom,  you’re the light that inspires hope, dreams, and wishes for futures and lives we could never have imagined possible….. your gifts to your children, your friends, and  your community are so abundant there marked only by the  stars in the sky… just as you are the star in our lives… may  you shine forever….. all my love,  Mary Jean Ziska

I look at these questions and think of the answers you would write concerning my family and childhood,    and your own childhood…   of how lives are intertwines with experiences and I think of how these questions could be answered  us…by  your children: (the three daughters:  Maura, Mattie , Mary Jean)  how the answers would  draw a picture and illustrate the amazing life  you  provided for us…. All  the opportunities …. And the blessings  just by  having you as a parent…

How can I express to you how my life was made wonderful and great through the opportunities you provided… you gave us  advantages that not all people have…

One of the questions in the book asked who has made the greatest impact on your life?

I would have to say, one of the people who made an indelible mark upon my life has been my family with my mother as the matriarch she has been a source of comfort, inspiration, guidance, a constant  source of love,  encouragement all of my life  and my life has been made  better because she  was  a part of it….

another question what are the most important characteristics of a good friend?

Two other questions  under the topic of events:   do you enjoy travel why or why not? What was the most fun, interesting or exciting places you’ve ever visited?

Please share a cherished memory from a family holiday celebration:

Did you begin any new traditions with your children

Is there anything you know now that you wish you’d known when you first became a mother?

What similarities do you see between yourself and your children

what are your most vivid memories of your children’s earliest years

what activities did you most enjoy with your children when they were young

how did becoming a mother change your life

in what ways are you like your mother what is a favorite memory of your mother grandma Gregory

what was your mother’s attitude toward life how did her attitude affect you

Mom I thought  it would be fun …. And more productive if instead of my rambling on about how much I love and cherish you…. we could answer these together…. On Christmas…. All these questions  sparks so many memories and thoughts that I wanted to be able to share  them with you…

 

The true test of a mother to me is 1 Kings 16:28

then two women who would become mothers out of wedlock came and stood before the King and one woman said oh my Lord, I  and  this women dwell in one house; I was delivered of a child with her in the house. The third day after  I was delivered, this woman also  delivered. We were together; no stranger was with us, just we two in the house. And this woman’s child died in the night because she lay on him. At midnight  she  took my son from  beside me while your handmaiden slept and laid  her  dead child in my arms . When I rose to nurse my child behold he was dead but when I had considered him in the morning behold it was not the son I had born  but  the other woman said no! The living one is my son and the dead one is your son! And this one said no! But the dead son is your son and the living is my son. Thus they spoke before the King.  That  this is my son that is alive and yours is the dead one. The other woman says no! But your son is the dead one and mine is the living one. And the king said bring me a sword, and they brought a sword to the King. The King said divide the living child in two and give half to the one and half to the other than the mother of the living child said to the king for she yearned over her son, “oh my Lord give her the living baby and by  no means slay him” but the other said “let him not be mine or yours but divide him.”   And the king said ” give her who pleads for his life the living baby by no means slay him. She is the
child’s mother”  and all Israel heard of the judgment which the king had made and they stood in awe of him for they saw that the wisdom of God was in him to do justice

this  story was  about  King Solomon

the Testament of a true mother to me has been  in the  end …the selfless  gift of wanting a child to be happy healthy with a prosperous life….  the  Testament of the mother is what she will do to make sure her child is able to follow dreams , hopes, goals, and passions… … Without hurting anyone, with the sole intention of making lives better, a true mother goes to any length to not only protect her child… support her child… but also to make their lives better…

Looking back, My mother provided us with such an amazing childhood…. I  could have never dreamed of all the  opportunities she provided for us…. the plan she had for making our life experiences extraordinary…. for fulfilling and exceeding expectations of not only a motherly love but of exceeding a mother’s  capabilities…. You were the village that raised a child… actually three children…  and we learned so much… and  am so  grateful  for so  the many  wonderful experiences…  

I love you now and  always…  god bless, merry Christmas.. and happy new year… luv mary jean Ziska

Mom I’ll add to this note once we have had a chance to chat about  all those questions… HA!  

christmas input for christmas card to maura eric caroline and ella

Dearest Maura, Eric, Caroline, and Ella,                                                  December
2012

Mary Christmas 2012… and happy new year….  I wanted to  make sure to 
write to you  this Christmas…to
tell you that  I hope this past year of 2012
was  great  for all of you … I wanted to say that  in my prayer every evening  I pray  that your family is  protected from harm, that you are  blessed even more in 2013… That all your
wishes and dreams do come true, that love, family and friends surround you and
your family now and always…

I can’t put into words all the  love I have for all of you, (even though I’ve
never even had the opportunity to meet Ella… yet…)  I can’t believe time has gone by so fast and
it’s already Christmas and New Year’s… awaiting 2013….

Maura, Eric, Caroline and Ella… May you be blessed  now and always – I honestly wish only the best
for you and your family… I am so proud to have had the opportunity to have you
as my family and I honestly do love and miss you all every minute of every day…

There are  so many
important and valuable things to remember and to say  during the holidays…so let me start by saying  that I don’t 
believe that love ever dies or  that 
true just doesn’t go away… or end… 
you know that true love of family, friends even cherished  memories…  they don’t go away…..until you are dead and I
am hoping they stay  with you in heaven….

I have cherished all 
those great memories and kept them close to my heart  these past 13 years…. every minute of every
day… No matter what people said to me or tried to make me believe….. I always
knew the real truth… my real truth… the truth of what I know of my family and of
how amazing they are… Of the honest and genuine love I have known   my entire life from my real family…  that has been my constant  through these 13 years of horrible
experiences… ….and  I want to thank you
for your constant love and your friendship over my lifetime….

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, love Mary Jean Ziska

My Dearest Sister Maura a special note:

I wanted to take a moment to let you know how much you made
a difference in my life… From growing up together in Saudi, (Ras Tanura), to
boarding school (Villa Maria) to college (the University of Florida) and
beyond… Your strength and character… Always so evident… I always admired how
you stood up for your beliefs, your friends, and your family… How you were able
to do and be anything you set your mind to…

I loved the softer side that you didn’t always show
everyone, the ability you had to love and the openness of your heart and your
authentic friendship! I was blessed to have you as a sister… To spend time with
you while we grew up and grew into the people we were supposed to be…

I’m genuinely glad you became such a remarkable woman and I
know you’re mark on the world will be amazing: strong and lasting… Your legacy
will not only be your children,  family
and career… But also the lives you’ve touched… All the people you’ve helped who
have better lives today because you were a part of their lives…

My life was  better by
you being a part of it…. And I thank you Maura Ann Ziska for your love, your
friendship, and for being my real sister –

Nothing is like the  genuine love, devotion, and caring that real
family and friends can give…  And I mean no one lives up to the
expectation and the reality of who  real
family and friends really are….  Maura, your
past, present and future are showcased in the genuine love you have for your
family and friends!

These past 13 years have been the worst years of my life,
with the worst experiences, and the worst people ever imaginable!  I have hated the experience,  every minute of every day    I hated that when I went to reach for the
phone… with the expectation of genuine family and friends of conversation and
encouragement… of shared beliefs and shared goals… of true  friendship 
and unconditional love… only to find manipulation and lies… bulling and
constant destruction of my life and my family by the  untruths  and cons and criminal manipulation of a group
of people I never asked to be in my life and never wanted in my life…. and who
ruined my life, who destroyed my soul and who were never  my family or friends….  I have missed the constant contact of genuine
family and friends every minute of every day!

I regret almost every moment   of 13
years of my life but most of all I regret never being allowed to continue the
relationship with my real family uninterrupted by con artists, criminal scum,  and  greedy  manipulators
 whose 
 selfish motivation ruined my
life! I regret the horrible people who conned their way into our lives because
I was trusting, gullible and honest…. I regret that they have harmed my life
beyond repair,    and allowed me to go through hell for their
own selfish intent… I regret these people, through their manipulation, their
God like complexes, their lies, their cheating, their stealing, and their deceit
stole my hopes and dreams…. And manipulated relationships and opportunities…   and I regret that I learned to hate…. Because
of all of them….I regret everything,
but most of all I regret never being allowed to be the person I was meant to
be…  to have the  relationships I was supposed to have…never
allowed ot be just me… and be happy….  These
 selfish vindictive horrible people who
were  never supposed to be in my life and
 who ruined lives and families….
businesses and  by  bullying, lying cheating and stealing  they ruined lives and they were never stopped
by anyone…

what was destroyed by these manipulative con artists cannot
be repaired…. what they  stole has never
been replaced  ….. the time and  opportunities of 13 years cannot be regained
or  duplicated…   It’s all unforgivable ….

But most of all….I miss all of us….  and I wanted to tell you this Christmas…. How
much I valued you as my sister… and  Maura,
like the  beautiful card/note  you gave me at our sorority initiation  we are sisters in real life… and in Kappa
Alpha Theta,  “all things were  possible”  you wrote of how you wanted us to be able to
have families  where we could babysit
each other’s kids… where we   were  supposed to be able  to, make holidays special with families… and
friends….  be able to support each
other’s hopes and dreams… and lives… and I had imagined  the closeness we shared throughout our
lives   would continue forever… I wish we
had been able to  share the same  moments and memories  for holidays and for those life changing
important moments…   or even the daily
conversations of friends and sisters…. I miss that  we  didn’t
get to talk every day…or even once a week…. To keep our bond  strong… 
but I loved and missed you every minute of every day… over these past 13
years… 

 No matter what
happens for the  rest of our lives…  I want you to remember how much I love you… always
have and always will …. Some  days I can’t
wait to be dead  and  in heaven so that one day we can be safe… and
be  with the same  real amazing sisters  again….where  bad horrible people will never be able to harm
us… I pray for your protection from harm every day…. for the criminal scum to
not hurt you or your family for the con artist’s lies, cheating, and stealing
never to reach you,  your family and your
friends…

I’ve never been the type of sister who was or is ever
jealous of you …. Because  Maura, instead
I have always been so proud to have you as a part of my family  and to have you as one of my best friends  and my sister…I always believed when mom would
sing  from the movie White Christmas “sisters”…
And believed our bond could withstand anything …. I believed that together we  could  do anything…. Like The Three Musketeers….    ” all for one and one for all” …  the dreams we dreamed  individually or collectively… would all come
true I know it now sounds a bit sappy… 
but we each had our strengths… and together  mom knew we would be so strong….   

I don’t know if I did enough for you… or told you enough how
much I admired you…. how intelligent you are,  how beautiful you are both  inside and out…. and how I always knew you
would be successful… that you would be a great mother and lawyer and how much
you are loved by her family and friends…

I hope I told you enough  that your ability to draw people toward you –
to command attention  in the most subtle
ways and to make friends and acquaintances 
everywhere you go is amazing… All that you do…. For so many people….. For
 all of it I  thank you!  

I thought one day I would be so successful I could bless you
and your family… I thought I could  come
in and make sure your hopes and dreams would come true…I’m sorry Maura,   Sorry
my life wasn’t able to turn out anything like I had hoped or planned  and I couldn’t bless your family …. I’m sorry that
these 13 years of hellish  experiences
that I have hated… being  a part of…  I’m sorry if I was a burden  for you and your family… I’m sorry that the
people who stole identities who stole my business my dreams my hopes my wishes
who ruined everything in my life….. I’m sorry if their slime has ever rubbed
off on to you  or your family…. I pray
the slime that hurt my life didn’t also ruin parts of your life… I want you to
always remember how much I loved you…how much  I tried to keep positive but it’s too hard
when evil “WINS” it just gets too hard……

I really  miss what
should have happened in this lifetime with the three Ziska sisters …  for these past thirteen years…  I miss the life I should have had and I miss
my family every minute of every day… I miss that the hard work and purposeful
achievement of business  goals  were stolen ….  that hopes and dreams once realized  were stopped… and that  that ambition and intent were manipulated only
to be crushed….  that  beliefs and faith were not only tested but
destroyed….. and that the hopes and dreams 
of a lifetime have been ruined….  But
that is my life…   luckily not your
plight…..

I am so proud to have been a part of your life Maura…  and hope you’ll always remember our sisterhood
and relationship with fondness and friendship  with  genuine respect and love I have always had for
you… That belief in you and all that you are and all that you will accomplish
in all that you have already accomplished…. Maura,  I am so full of pride and admiration when I
speak of you… and the amazing woman you have become… I smile  when I think of how you are so capable of
everything… you can bake and decorate sugar cookies for holidays…. Be a
successful lawyer,  wife and mother…
and  do everything…. I don’t know how you
do it all…. And on top of everything… 
you are  an amazing person and
sister…. Whether now…. Or when we were kids… you and Mattie  are the most 
amazing sisters anyone could have ever asked for…   I
could not have  wanted anything else in a
sister and I love you and miss you every minute of every day… when I wrote
the  “my gingerbreadman”  story 
in 2003…  you were one of my
inspirations…  …. An amazing.. woman  who was successful,  accomplished, 
well rounded and could do anything…. And you did everything…   your amazing and  I am so happy you  and Erick are together…. That you have  a beautiful family… and someday I hope you
all can  come to Naples again to visit
so  I 
can officially meet Ella…  and see
Caroline again…. You are a true success story Maura… and I am so happy for
you…  and your family… I really truly am
sooo happy for you….     

 I’ve thought of what I
would have changed….. If you could live your life over but know what you know
now perhaps going back to when we visited Kathy Young at Miss Porter’s… Or
staying in school in France… I keep wishing to erase all of this  but can’t and in reality there’s “no way out”
and no way to recover all that has  been
ruined … I can definitely say the story of my gingerbread man from 2003 has
never been realized  for me… nor any of
the hopes and dreams I’ve had for my life ever been realized… And I’m truly
sorry that no happily ever after will ever be in my future… but  knowing that your life  and family will be able to  have the 
most wonderful and happily ever after 
story  book ….. beginning ….middle
and ending…..  is just so amazing and
great… please make the most of the 
blessings you are given… and please treasure your children and your  husband .. your career,  your home your family and your friends…   I am truly happy for you…  and hope your blessings will continue  for your entire  life…

 I would not want to
miss one moment of time I got to spend with my family laughing or talking of
memories or experiences that I had as a child… If I could go back in time and
erase everything…horrid… I would change…

And despite the destruction of my life may you and your
family have a very Merry Christmas and a happy new year I do honestly hope all
of your hopes and dreams for 2013 will become a reality for you and for your
family and known my heart I love my sister Maura Ann Ziska, more than you’ll
ever know and realize God bless … I know this has been really long… but I
wanted you to know and say everything….

LUV, Mary Jean Ziska

5632 whisperwood blvd. 1601

Naples florida 34110

December 21st 2012@ 2:51am christmas card to mattie

Dearest Mattie,(Madelon Marie Ziska)  December 2012

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!  Christmas 2012… I wish for you that the
spirit of Christmas.. the joy… and wonder of 
the season… the excitement and anticipation of wondrous gifts and the
love  of family and friends are with you
now and throughout the year…

 I wish You a
continued open heart.. And unconditional love…. A true gingerbread man to come
into your life and who will love you now and forever and love you ( as in Bridget
 Jones: “ just as you are”) knowing how
god perfectly formed you to be such an amazing person…. and finding such an
amazing wonderful guy who can appreciate you 
and all that you have to offer… the great and amazing sister I have
known  and loved as my sister and my
friend…throughout  my life…. Madelon
Marie Ziska!

You were one of the inspirations for  writing 
the story of the gingerbread man…. An amazing woman who has so much to
offer.. and not finding  anyone worthy of
you……  And my sister,…. My friend ,you
deserve to have such an amazing life…   I wanted to write you special a note this
Christmas to tell you   that I believe
you can achieve anything …. that your strength in character, your  resilience in adversity, amazes me…. I know
they say god doesn’t give  us more than
we can handle… but I think that is a bit 
of an off statement… and that  you
had a right to have such a wonderful life… 
growing up in Saudi… you were so sweet and so loving to all…. I wish you
could have been protected and  blessed
your entire lifetime …. I think of you with your  innocent smile… and holding lambsie ( is that
how it is spelled? )If I could have…. I would have made sure you could have
stayed  protected and  blessed 
your entire life…   Mattie, You
have such a kind soul… one that is meant to go to heaven… A pure  soul 
and person who makes a difference in this world… the people you meet…
you make a lasting impression… your presence, your life… and just who you
are….mattie you are  so memorable….
And  so loved by all the people  you meet…   
you have the most generous heart…. The most loving nature…. And  you would help or give of your self without
even thinking twice…..

You have protected me from harm when I didn’t even know it
existed…. And you sacrificed for others and for that I have no words.. .but
total admiration…. The selflessness 
and  friendship you  give  of
yourself…   those are memories I will have with me all of
my life…  your  ability to 
dream up inventions…  to be
creative… to be an entrepreneur… to inspire and to encourage…. The strength you
have in your  belief of God… and
goodness.. and your ability to be such a great friend…. If you wanted to be a
mother… you would make a wonderful mother…  
and  when you choose someone  who has all those great qualities… you will
be a great wife….  Actually  you have so many hidden talents…  you constantly inspire me when I see your
ability to achieve any goal you set….

I loved talking to you on the  phone about anything…  business… or television programs.. or
inspirational books.. or  goals or hopes
and dreams… I shared so much of my heart with you…. You were my sister and one
of my best friends…  and I feel so
blessed that I had an opportunity to have you in my life…. 

When someone in this world wasn’t nice it was so nice to
know that the strength  we had as
sisters  and friends  couldn’t be broken… I knew I could always
count on you…. And  you were always on my
side.. always there… and always such an amazing sister and friend.

I wrote to Maura , and I will say something similar to you…
I don’t know if I did enough for you… for my real sister….  I had always believed that my life would be
great.. that the blessings I had…. I could share… and I always  thought I could be that big sister who
could  really bless you…. To help
you  to achieve your goals and dreams.. …To
help you make all your wishes come true…. 
I wanted you to have such a great life…  
 and I am sorry   that my life was destroyed … and I wasn’t
able to be that big sister who 
could  Bless you  and give you all that you  should 
have had….     

I don’t know the extent of how much
these horrid people have hurt you…they ruined my life… and for 13 years…. Their
lies cheating and stealing….  The
disgusting scum that  made up these
people who had no care for the destruction they did to me.. and to   each of us personally .. and to our family
in total… it is unforgivable… when we never hurt anyone… and they absolutely
ruined lives…. And did it with malicious intent and  with the utmost evil  in their hearts and souls….  They stole my identity… my credit my
business… my hopes and dreams… and  I
will never recover from this devastation…. I cannot fight them alone… and their
manipulation and utter disregard for laws and ethics and morals.. and
decency…goes far beyond  my strength… and
it changed who I am today.. and who I was supposed to have become… I pray  every night for protection from harm for you
and all our family…. And that they will leave you alone and  not destroy 
your life… your ability to love and trust…  and  I
actually pray they will die so that they will never be ever able  to hurt anyone ever again….  I can’t wait to be dead and in heaven where
they will not be able to  hurt us any
more… and where all our genuine family and friends will be and where finally
where all real hopes and dreams can come true….

Mattie… I’m sorry to say my
belief in miracles.. and heroes and 
hopes and dreams coming true…   of
all that is sugar and spice and everything nice…. May only be for  heaven…. 
I  tried to  keep positive… but its too hard when you face
pure evil… who’s total intent is to WIN…. And  
without morals values and ethics..and 
with calculated manipulation, destructive and devious  lies,  cheating and 
stealing…   there are just too
many of the evil assholes around…   and
by them separating me from my family and friends… and ruining my life and not
even caring that they do it…. I just pray that you (Madelon Marie Ziska ) are
protected …. You  should have  had a great life….  you still should have a great life…  one that is blessed and happy… really
happy…  that is my Christmas wish for
you….

I also I wish they had never come
into our lives, never harmed us individually or as a family and I’m truly sorry
they interrupted the amazing and wonderful life you were meant to have…

Mattie, I honestly believe…you
went meant to have a blessed life…. I know it in my heart that God put you on
earth to share your ability to love…  to
shine with the abundance of gifts he bestowed upon you… your talent for
writing… your artistic ability, your success 
at every endeavor…. Your amazing way of speaking your mind…. And
allowing your heart to shine through…. 
Your strength in faith and belief in the goodness of people  … your ability to walk into a room and
radiate this extra something… and befriend everyone you meet… your
authentic  beauty inside and out….. your
talents  and intelligence  exceed anything you have accomplished thus
far… your path to greatness was started long ago… maybe destined from
birth…  the possibilities are endless of
what you can accomplish…  and I know you
are capable of accomplishing it all… of having it all…. And I am so proud to
call you my sister because of who you are…. And how wonderful and great you are
already….

You never were shallow… or
insensitive….and your capacity for compassion and  for 
understanding… even the capacity for 
your unselfish acts… always amazed me… you took time to help me be a
better person… and I did become a better person 
thanks  to you…. I think you
shielded me from harm when I was even unaware of it… I think you thought of
others before yourself…. And your actions when no one was looking proved your
character…. And   even though I was 4
years older… sometimes you seemed to be so much more prepared for the world..
and wiser….and able to manage all it entailed….

Who could have imagined this
little bubbly girl with a bun on top of her head would have the  opportunity to have such an impact on so many
people… but you do…and I hope  you
realize how much you have made a positive impact on my life…. you  were and are never forgotten… and always
loved… by your older sister….( me…)   for
13 years I have missed  having you in my
life.. every minute of every day…  I have
missed talking to you about everything and anything..  of having you as one of my  best friends 
and with the additional bonus of having you as my sister…. Has been a
bgreat  lessing in my life…       

 Your gift of genuine love for people, and
animals, especially animals HA!  Your
wisdom alwayss been a great  blessing in
my life…        

 Your gift of genuine love for people, and
animals, especially animals HA!  Your
wisdom always way beyond your years – your kindness and generosity… Your unconditional
love and friendship remains in my heart always and forever….

Mattie, my untwin,… My sister and
one of my best friends, the time  we shared
our lives our hopes and our dreams our fears and our ambitions… you became not
only my sister but one of my dearest and best friends – you gave me
encouragement, strength, and belief in such a great future I honestly believed
“all things are possible” and I believed the inside quote for the dream big DVD
by Joel OLSTEEN

 Jeremiah
29:11 “for I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for you to
prosper and not for evil,  to give you a
future and a hope!”

 

May this Christmas 2012 be the
start of a new and great chapter in your life…  May  the
next year of2013 fulfill all your hopes and dreams…. And may all your wishes
come true…

 All my love, Mary Jean Ziska  

 

 

december 21st 2012@ 2:53am christmas card/letter dad

Dearest Dad, Elwin Joseph Ziska,                                                             December 2012:

I wanted to take a moment to write you a personal note for
Christmas. To my dad, my protector, my hero when I was growing up, to a man I
admire and respect…Dearest dad you’re a man of integrity, honesty,
intelligence, and always did the right thing! You are  a rare and precious person in my life and I
want to thank you for all that you have  given me… all you’ve done for me and for your
unconditional love!

You wrote me letters while I was at boarding school, those
letters full of encouragement acknowledgment bits of wisdom and full of love
were so cherished by me and at such a critical time in my life…  When most people were just getting letters
from their mother or their friends or their sisters and brothers every now and
then…..always made sure to write me…..all the time…. your diligence in making
sure that I knew I was loved that you are still in my life and that you  valued me as your eldest daughter made a huge
impact on my feelings of safety and security , of my knowledge in the love my
family had for me,  and in branching off
on my own starting at 14 years old…I was 
far away  from Ras Tanura… at
Villa Maria… but I never felt lonely or forgotten….  And I want to thank you for that…

Dad, they say that the way a father treats his daughter shows
a young girl her how most men act…  I was
really blessed to have you as an example 
of what a man should be like… 
your  entire character, and living
by  your example …. It was great growing
up with an ideal father!   I even had a
discussion about how easy it was for me to believe in   God as my father…. Because I had a great
father… it was easy to  know that  if God was like my father… he would want me
to have a great life, would want me to 
be happy and protected and to follow my passion and do have a
career  that never made me feel like I
was working…. But was one I really enjoyed…. I remember you talking to me about
choices… and how it was so important for us to make two really important
choices in our lives….   That would
affect your home life and our work life….….

The first important choice was who we would marry… who we
chose to share our lives with… to fall in love with … to have families with….

  And the second
choice….  That was so important… was to
choose a profession that we loved… to follow our passions… and to choose a
career where you loved it so much it didn’t feel like work…. Like a hobby but
you got paid for it… and    a career
where you couldn’t wait to get up in the morning to continue what you had
started the day before…. And to do it with purpose… and to do it well… you

You demonstrated integrity…. And always wanted us to do our
best….  Whether it was art, or grades or
sports… or hobbies… and you always made us feel valued and our projects feel
important….  I don’t know where all our
art projects went when you “took them to work”… but you must have known the
impression you made on our daughters… was enormous…..   

I can’t thank you enough for the opportunity you gave our family
by being able to grow up in such a wonderful safe environment as Aramco in
Saudi Arabia! The opportunities I’ve had over my lifetime started with the
choices you and mom made to better our lives… to offer an abundance of
opportunities and to provide us with such an amazing way to grow up!

The opportunity of school in Europe…. school in France…. was
the opportunity of a lifetime! The bonus of the additional ticket you gave me
so that I could always have a return trip to Europe, the bank account you set
up for me, verifying /interviewing… and checking out all my friends for me, I
just want to thank you over and over again for blessing my life, for being my
father, for protecting me from harm, for being the best dad ever!

At this Christmas time, I just want you to know how much you
are loved, how much you are valued, and what a great and wonderful father and parent
you’ve been!

They say the girls learn about relationships from their
parents and learn about what a true husband and father would be from their
fathers… In you….. You exhibited   your
character  existing of… honesty, your
truthfulness, your work ethic, your honor, respect for women, respect for
education, your belief in your daughter’s and their possibility for future
careers, your   manners, your even temper, and dry sense of
humor, for all that you are I thank you… You’re an amazing example of what a
true father and what example of husband should be…   (I think that is why Maura was able to find
such a great husband in Eric Christu …. He is a lot like you in character… and
probably why it is so hard for Mattie and I t find a guy who would live up to
your honesty and integrity…. HA!)  You
always made us feel safe and protected… and you protected mom and us from any
harm…  You provided us with a childhood
of abundance… with everything we could have possibly ever wanted or needed…
with the same love you always showed us…. And I want to thank you for all of
that!

If it had not been your choice of going to Saudi Arabia to
work with Aramco we may not have gotten to see the taj mahal or the Egyptian pyramid…
To go on an African safari or to travel through Europe on an adventure… If it
had not been for your choice of going to Aramco we would’ve never lived on the
Persian Gulf, had horses to ride on the beach…. Right on the Persian Gulf, or
had the opportunity to get our real German Shepard dog (nipper) …. In Germany!  ….So many wonderful experiences that most
people never have in their entire life you gave us all of that and more… in the
most amazing childhood….  How can I put
it into words how you were able to shape and mold our lives and how you were
able to provide us with such an amazing life and experiences   while
growing up!  

So many people have been jealous of the things we are able
to do or even some of the possessions we are able to have but the most
important was having a loving family and a dad who instilled confidence, helped
us to achieve goals, exhibited an excellence in his way of life… that didn’t
contradict anything that he told us… He taught us it was best to be honest and
truthful when so many people would lie cheat and steal …… You taught us that men
were to respect women, and showed us manners like holding open doors…  or protecting us from harm….it amazing… that today
so many people just aren’t raised with the great morals, values and integrity
grandma and grandpa Ziska taught you!  I am
constantly amazed at the difference in people’s families and how they were
raised and in the father and mother they were blessed with…

I must say that my parents were my blessing…. A huge
blessing and I want to thank you every day for being a person I can count on,
someone I could believe in, and a true man of honor and integrity and
excellence!

These past 13 years have been the worst of my life filled
with the worst experiences and filled with people of unsavory character who are
full of lies, cheating, stealing, and manipulation…

I feel like I must have been an obvious target….  I was raised to live in a world that was
devoid of crime… that had other people like you dad… I honestly   believed there had to be more great people
like you in the world… and I was and still am shocked at the depraved and
revolting people who do exist… who ruin lives and harm people on purpose… and
who are sooo horrid….  They manipulate
conversations to make you look bad… or feel bad… they will bully or lie or
cheat and steal to get what they want without t any care how they hurt
others…   they are callous and ruthless people
who are not good or great in any respect…. 
  And I wish there were more people like you… or
who were raised with the same honorable values and integrity and the “do right
attitude” you have…. Because I regret every moment of every day… of meeting any
of them….   

Each and every time I was hurt by any of them I would
remember what a real genuine loving father was like… And I would remember how
much you loved us… provided for us… and how so very different these people  are 
from anyone I grew up with  or knew
in my life…. these horrible people who would lie, cheat, and steal …… sooooo
different  from anyone I’d ever known
growing up in Saudi Arabia, how different they were from anyone I’d ever wanted
in my life…  and they are not people I
should have ever had in my life….

Because of the horrid events of these past 13 years…. I
think about… and wonder what would’ve happened:

I wonder if I should have changed schools… to go to miss
porters when I went to visit Kathy Young… 
at 16…. And never had my last year of high school here in Naples…   would that have changed my destiny… and kept
me protected from ever coming in contact 
with  the criminal scumm who stole
my identity… who stole my life.. Who stole my businesses… my hopes and my
dreams… and permanently ruined my life…    

I wonder what would’ve happened if you’d bought the condo in
California when we’re looking at colleges in California …. And instead of going
to the University of Florida… went to college in California…… I wonder what
would’ve happened would that have changed destiny…. Again….

 I wonder what
would’ve happened if I just stayed at school in France where I was protected
and where the people were genuine, honest , trustworthy… and nice….the kind of
real friends  who  would never have even thought of hurting me…
my life or of stealing from me or my family…

 I wonder if in 1999
we had selected the other condo here in the strand… the one not under the Russo
boys…. Would my life have been safe? …  My condo been safe? My possessions been
safe?  My identity and my credit … been
safe?  Would I have been safe  and protected instead  of having to live through the worst
experiences of my life… and the  total
devastation  of my  life…. for the  last 13 years …. Would that have been enough
to have stopped all of this from ever happening? 

I pray every night for 
them to  die so they will never be
allowed to ever harm another person or family 
as they did me or my family…. Ever again… I have tried my best to stop
them but I am only one person  … and
they are criminals… they think
and act differently than anyone I have ever known… and   every time they violate my life… I am
shocked, stunned… and devastated….

I want to thank you for everything you’ve given me over my
life I’m so sorry that scummy criminals and low life disgusting deceitful
worthless human beings hurt lives on purpose… And hurt my life on purpose… For
these last 13 years…

Thank you for believing in me… in any choice of my future…  And believing in the faux painting business,
my capacity for business…. And the business I started ….with plans to continue
with interior design school … or an MBA….. thank you for your support and encouragement
in a gift and skill/talent I didn’t even know I had…. and for becoming my
number one fan…: Thank you for the opportunity of letting us get to know each
other better when you lived here protecting me from harm… for sharing in the
bible CD’s and opening your heart and showing me that a real man can believe in
God… and the stories of the Bible… and still be strong and intelligent and a
great DAD… Thank you,  For writing me a
letter when  I was at school in France
and wanting me to go skiing with you in the Alps…  even though I was not a good skier …. At
all…. Ha!  Thank you for the
opportunities you provided…. Me… for protecting me from jealous and evil
people… and for all your love and friendship…. 

You are an amazing man and I want to thank you for being my
father!

You were able to retire at 50… and able to achieve all your
goals… financially and personally… you were a great example….  Of what is possible with hard work and a
plan…. One of your famous quotes about selecting a path to get to a
destination….   “Otherwise any path will do….”  Influenced me in my goals and planning …. And
even helped when I wrote a business plan or even created websites   for mom’s
start of an etiquette school… or even for my websites and blogs… www.mysearchforjustice.com, www.mysearchforjustice.com 

No matter what happens no one can ever take away the
opportunities you gave me, and Maura and Mattie in our childhood…. the
unconditional and overflowing love provided for us… And for having a great Dad
to grow up with….

Kathy’s Young’s father just died recently and I know they
were  really close…a lot of my friends
have lost one or more of their parents…  The memories of having a great dad will live
on forever with her,  just as all the
memories I have of my dad will live on forever with me… 

I will always remember and chuckle at the way when I was six
or seven years old you reprimanded Kathy and I for cooking my Barbie doll food…
in my bedroom in our first house…. Your calm yet stern  approach 
to discipline… and to our “teachable lessons”….  You somehow instilled in us a desire to want
to do better and to be better people….    I’ll always remember the plans I drew for the
elaborate tree house that was turned into a Playhouse at the side of our first
house in Saudi… and your intent interest as I explained the different elaborate
rooms…  (My version something like the Swiss
family Robinson movie I had just seen… Ha!) …. I’ll always remember your
commanding voice that terrified Steven Stegana(sp?)   and
Jimmy Hill  and a few other boys…. And
when a simple game  of “war”  Kathy  young and I agreed to play  with the boys …. changed …. After we (the girls)
changed the rules of the game…. … the boys disagreed… with our new rules…  Until you came in to settle the dispute….
HA!   Your presence gave us security, safety and a true
knowing that nothing could ever hurt us… You were so big and strong…. And made us
feel so safe… actually later in my life… it is that feeling of safety and
security… that knowing it even existed … that growing up in a great environment…
Dad, I knew it was special… but I had no idea…how special it was… and I want
to thank you for that!  Some people never
had the  security of having a dad they
could rely on…. And I did …. Dad I want to thank you over and over for being a
great father….

 Dad, I don’t know if
you knew… but we did well in school, or sports, or even keeping our room clean
to make you proud and I hope at the end of the day the pride you have in your
daughter’s still exists as you had a big part in helping us achieve and become
the women we are today!   

 I hate that I
wasn’t  allowed to become the woman I was
meant to be… it feels like I was just getting started when it was all ripped
away….and my life was ruined by  criminal
scum…  I know the entire blame rests on
the criminals and con-artists of these past 
 13 years…..   But the pride you had in who I was supposed
to be… of what I could have accomplished…  I’m sorry that I wasn’t able to achieve all my
goals… and my hopes and dreams… and of one day being able to really bless you

I even had it on a list of goals….  To bless you… to bless mom and to bless my
sisters… and extended family and friends…. I actually  expected 
to have such a great and successful 
life that I would have been able to 
bless you…  and to bless you  with  so
much…. making sure your retirement was peaceful, happy and to somehow  I would be able to  properly thank you for all that you had given
me… I had wanted to make sure both you and mom 
 were happy in your retirement… (
I even imagined that I could  buy you
each a condo in the Remington… like the Rockett’s… but each of you would get a
condo  in the Remington at bay colony  but on opposite side of the
building..HA!  … Your life Dad, made such
a huge impact on my life in a positive way…. and I want to thank you for
that….     

Speaking of pride, and the pride we had in you … and you had
in your daughters….  if there are things
I could take back or somehow change … I  wish there had been no criminals, who picked
on me or my family starting from  when I
moved into  the strand… I found out this
past year about all the damage that was done to my life, my credit, by criminals,
con artists and worthless loser disgusting scum… Dad you wouldn’t believe what
they’ve done… From the moment we purchased the condo for my future ….for a
great future here in The Strand…. for $132,000 according to court records…
They’ve been creating false mortgages and stealing money… It came to over
$200,000 in false mortgages using my name and my Social Security… They’ve
stolen my name and ruined credit cards by duplicating those credit cards, by
creating false phone accounts and most recently… someone tried and may have
succeeded in actually opening up a bank account in October 2012 …. In my name
using my Social Security number at Regions Bank…

I think that everything you and many others may have tried
to bless me with ….. … Whether it was opportunities, or gifts… or
possessions…  I think the  little slimy disgusting impostor con artists
criminal scumbags somehow they  were able
to manipulate  and steal it away from me…
 and in doing so they changed my  destiny and my life….  in the process….   

They actually stole the diamond earrings and pearl earrings
you bought for me… and gave to me from  al Kohabar(sp?) … and both those gifts meant
so much because they were from you….     

I was never raised having to deal with such devious,
horrible, worthless, disgusting, people and to be perfectly honest I didn’t
know how to fight let alone fix anything they destroyed…… I’m still not sure if
I know how to fix anything that they’ve destroyed…it might not be
repairable…   

 I miss my father to
run to ….to fix all boo-boos and make it all better…

But what has transpired… has taken away so many years…. And so
much….. so many  horrid experiences…
instead of  great experiences or  memories…  they put me through so many lies so much
manipulation….it  would take a team of
great dad’s  to put it all back together…
and even in humpty dumpty…. All the kings’ horses and all the kings’ men just
couldn’t put humpty dumpty back together again…. (Not that I am anything like
an egg… head… ha!) and I don’t know how that rhyme came into my thoughts… but I
guess  it’s just that these past 13 years
have affected who I am today… and  I miss
the safety of Aramco… and  the love of
true family and friends….

I miss my family and friends every minute of every day… The
love, kindness, security, and protection of a great family are priceless… I
want to thank you for teaching me values of honesty and integrity, showing me
what a real true father should be ……a man… who elevates the people around him
and makes our lives better by being a part of it… you always put your family
first… and our lives were made better for it… thank you Dad… for all that you
did.. And all that you do for us… now and always…. 

All my love to you DAD, Merry Christmas 2012 and Happy New
Year 2013! 

 Luv from Your first
born daughter,

The original and real Mary Jean Ziska Born July 7th
1966!