When asked how the phone situation has affected my life… I started to think of all the many ways  that my life was affected… I used to say these were or are the worst years of my life.. want  to amend that statement and say that there have been some of the worst experiences of my life have occurred.  

So I thought it might be more descriptive in telling what my life goals were… and what I was not allowed to achieve or accomplish during these years where people where allowed to lie to me, to steal from me, to manipulate my life, to use me,  and to selfishly be able to  harm my life.