I was trying to ask  my mom to remember  some of the many times that jobs were stolen… or other crimes committed against me…

( just recently learned  through  the entire experience of Virgin Mobil.. that my phone has probably been spoofed since i got the number originally from  Sprint!) my cell phone is supposed to be 239-287-2294. but i was getting up to 12-13 calls a day with a phone number of:  11239-287-2294 when contacting intellius.. there was no such number….. when doing research.. found that a similar number from a sprint phone allowed people to get messages without using a pass code… called spoofing… and is illegal in the state of Florida!

That means  not only one job or one message that was stolen.. but years of stolen messages and stolen jobs and years of items  that  were stolen ..

I was  told by a very nasty person that it was alright for things to be stolen from me … in fact may i repeat.. i was told….. ” TO GET OVER IT!” ..… 

 the words just don’t  make sense….

when you think of it…. in the context of having a personal possession stolen from you….   no matter who says those words….. and possibly the only person i could see ever saying something /or anything like (get over it in dealing with a crime against a woman…) must be  someone who  commits crimes and doesn’t want to get caught and wants to be allowed to continue with their crime spree… any law abiding person would enlist the assistance of a real police officer and a real lawyer… to stop the crimes from continuing…. .. obviously  the only type of person who wouldn’t  want any crimes to be told to the proper authorities would be the criminals themselves! not someone who wants to be caught for committing the crimes..

When I tried  to attempt to explain that laws were broken… that you don’t get over it when you are violated over and over and the criminals are not caught but continue to  not only invade your home…or your car… but these narcissistic criminals  seem to have a belief that  they are above all laws .. and above any retribution that laws provide.. that since no criminal punishment has ever come down upon these slimy criminals.. that they can continue to break laws… and harm families.. businesses and individuals like myself!

So needless to say I ended up in tears… ( probably the objective right?   Bullies usually want the end result of harming someone to be a victim so they can feel powerful… example of karn kahel jumping up and down after bulling me to tears… and her saying she “won”… yep… bullies tonight on the phone… for a few phone calls..

and this is classic… the bully wants me to go and see a therapist instead of contacting a lawyer…or  the police….

clearly trying to what?…. discredit me?…. that i am not supposed to get upset when something is stolen?… i am not supposed  feel violated when people break into my home?… but instead i am supposed  just of what was that again… ohhhh right…. i am jsut supposed to ” GET OVER IT”>>>>

Damaging…. absolutely!!!!!!… upsetting!!!!!!!!!… YES!!!!!!!!!!…. not only discrediting or not validating….  me. or the crime that occurred  over and over and over… but discrediting any victim…… or anyone who is a victim… much like a rape victim is brutalized … told it was her fault... that if she hadn’t worn the short shirt… or hadn’t been pretty…. the crime wouldn’t have happened…

 So in my case… since these crimes have been occurring since 2003… and no one will stop them... then what?

I started taking proactive measures…  putting everything in writing…. making sure the proper authorities are notified… that means the police and the lawyers.…NOT  a shrink… what  a  evil and vile person to even suggest that …. but then that’s how they have been bulling for years…. of course with no one stopping them…. or any punishment…. not exactly like the moment when Gerard was on the phone threatening to kill my mother and i begged him not to hurt my family…. …… I was also crying and shaking and ready to throw up… but crouched on the floor…. not being able to move.. i was in no position to fight back….  then…. now it is a different story…. hey wanted me    “to change”……  to “toughen up”  i am not the same sweet and nice person i once was that is totally due to the events of these past 7 years….. and i cant wait to take them to court for damages……

so for this case….  what?  if i had just  not allowed someone to break into my home?… or  If i had  not allowed anyone on the phone to know when i was home? or not home?… or what?  if i had never  trusted anyone ever again?…. or the best is when someone told me  not to have anything worth stealing? ….. maybe   i didn’t contact enough of the proper authorities.. …  or  didn’t pray  for protection enough?…..

 what a horrible bully session….and very harmful bully session it was! Karen kahel would be sooo proud! wonder if she was behind it…. or any of her scummy friends….
  
luckily when i called back i got a great person who actually prayed.. and seemed nice… .. maybe there are people who still have morals?.. values?… and actually ethics?… who aren’t into  bulling and harming people for their own selfish intentions…  but i sadly must report there are not many  people like that out there….