I have a feeling that the blog entries will be a running list of both memories and events or experiences that occurred during the yeas of 2003-2010….. they may not be in chronological order but the description of the events and the feelings associated with the events will be the truth…..
so while i had my faux painting business i had bank accounts at three different bank accounts….. I opened an account a safe deposit account at 5th 3rd bank……. at the time karen kahel was working there i know i left not only cash (aprox. 14 thousand dollars at the time) ….and my extra house keys and car keys and anything that was valuable to me… like my jewelry…. and important papers…. surprising enough people routinely broke into my home when i was away working on projects… for my faux painting business… and when i was babysitting….
In 2005 when I worked for Karen kahel who lived in Carlton lakes at the time…. babysitting her three month old son….. Greyson … (for a short time) until I saw her or someone who looked exactly like her in an orange bathing suit (bikini) kissing a man in her community pool who was not the man i was introduced to as her husband.. supposedly her husband was Todd…. and when i met him…. he was bald… this man in the pool had a large amount of dark hair….. when i told my dad years later that i was appalled that a woman would be having an affair and having me babysit a 3 month old child… he concluded that the child was probably the product of the affair…. who knows?… i do know while i was sitting for her she gave me specific instructions on how to walk her child in the baby carriage into my complex…. trespassing ……
the problem with her instructions was that i knew better.. I lived there…. and knew not anyone could or should just walk into a gated community…. since i lived there… I told her that wasn’t allowed…. little did i know then that she not only trespassed into my complex…. ( 2005…) without anyone’s permission and anyone allowing her to be on their list of guest list … but she made her babysitters do the same… totally illegal…. but she had no problem breaking rules or laws… then and i later learned she had no problem harming a person and inflicting emotional harm by bulling later…..
I do remember she wanted me to meet her friend FAVIO… who got her great deals on BMWs from fort myers…. so who knows if that was another scam or even the dark haired Italian she was cavorting with in the pool…. i really don’t care about her life except for when it harmed mine…. and bulling and trespassing into my property definitely harmed my life!
I think now it was lucky that i didn’t do anything with her BMW connection…. and…. I declined… didn’t really respect her or her choices after that….
I do know years later when i emailed a question to my bank…. the 5th/ 3rd bank concerning the time frame that she worked at the bank so that i could correlate if and when items were stolen from my home since i knew she trespassed and had her sitters trespass…. Well, immediately after the email my bank accounts were closed from that bank.. and not personal bank accounts bank accounts I had established for A Tender Loving Care Service and for A TLC PREP ( the etiquette school ) someone mentioned that since she went to Ohio State… and the bank was originated in Cincinnati… since she had worked there at the time she was also kissing a strange man in the pool… that possibly it was someone from the bank who was in the pool with her…. or who knows… there was no end to the possibilities of the man or men she had been involved with.. HUMMMMM very interesting right?