lesson for today don’t trust anything anyone says,…. dont rely on a verbal contract…. and  dont do anythng extra for anyone… they will only hurt you,  and disappoint you…..   a shame since it is my dad’s b-day… tha i got another lesson that people men and boys…. will  look out for themselves.. never honor a contract or agreement and basically anycode of ethics from  anyone in  college even gret colleges like duke… will  still show dishonor at the first chance.
my dad onteh other hand… a really great guy… a man with real integrity.. andhonor.. who believed in following through with  what he said he woudldo .. a man yu coudl  count on… could rely on.. a man who was so honest..  and trusting… who went out of his way to make sure the women in his life were alright.. were treated with respect…with dignity.. the man held doors open… for his daughtrs.. made sure our lives were great…. thank you dad for  showign me what a real man shoudl be like… he was humble not arragont.. not showy…  he was what a real man should be like….. i can teven desccribe how disappointed i am inteh people i have in my life who dont  even come clsoe to being men of integrity.. or honor….. not close at all….