Blog post July 24, 2012 at 1:26 PM and like to me on my birthday
my birthday July 2012. Continuation of notes:
there was something a little odd about my birthday this year. When I got home from working all morning with Rita and Carl, I showered, dressed, put on makeup was ready to go to the movies with my mom having to go out to dinner with my mom. In between getting ready. I tried calling her with my magic jack. I was unable to reach her on her home telephone number, I didn’t think that much of it, but she was supposed to be waiting for my call so she could come over. We discuss options. A few times earlier in the week when I would call what time I would call that number I would call and I thought we had decided I would call once I was home and almost finished getting ready so that she wouldn’t have to wait around if I was showering or putting on makeup, and I thought I was supposed to call her at her home number. She was originally going to be at her home around 1 PM to 2 PM I was running just a little bit late so I probably reached her closer to 2 PM. She’s told me she still needed to pick up my cake and would be at my home around 230 and to make sure that her name was at the gate. I was actually a bit relieved since I was still trying to get ready and didn’t want to be rushed or feel stressed on my birthday. I also really wanted to look nice. I bought a new dress from Saks with money. My dad had sent me for my birthday. I was so looking forward to spending time with someone who loved me and like me on my birthday. I mean, someone who really loved me, and like to me on my birthday! I mean, someone who really loved me.
I eventually reach her on her cell phone instead of her home phone and she arrived approximately 2 3245. The movie started at 235 is already were running up that late. I had original I had previously purchased tickets to the movie and also make sure to get a gift certificate for my mom. So she wouldn’t have to spend too much money on my dinner at the Ritz. Antarctica are the gift certificate I have to rip receipts for the movie tickets with me when we were arrived at the movie theater that a sitting way in the back with plenty of legroom and since we are late. We sat in the front and had to move chairs a few times because of people a dirty root one of the seats. I spoke with the manager to see if we could actually stay and watch the beginning of the movie when the second movie would start and he said that would be all right. So we got to visit just a little bit in between movies. The movie we went to go see with the InTouch balls was a French film with subtitles about a man who was hired by billionaire to take care of him. I like that and I think I would like it even more if I’d had had the opportunity see the movie from beginning to end in one sitting. New line. Here’s what was weird on the cell phone when I was talking to my mother. She was mentioning Vivian one of the babysitters and Debbie think she meant my cousin Debbie but I’m not sure there may be a babysitter named Debbie as well. I’m not sure why both of those people came up on my birthday as I was really hoping to just spend time with my mother and originally even hope that I get to spend my birthday with my sister who shared a birthday with me.
At my home. It was a bit different than I had anticipated, I had someone in my home, who decided it was a perfect opportunity to remark about the problem with me locking up everything before leaving my home. This was strange, since first off it was my birthday and you would think that whoever wanted to actually spend my birthday with me would want to be nice to me on my birthday. Second point: that mime mother actually knows the entire history from the days when I could live carefree free of any type of criminal activity that ruined my life free before my identity was stolen my possessions were stolen my jobs and careers were stolen. Instead, this person decided on my birthday was an opportune time to try to make me look and feel bad about locking up everything before I left my house. I had earlier that day or the day before. Gone to the police station to make sure, since there were too many people who knew I would be gone for movie for dinner after work at my home would almost be empty for most of the day those are the type of situations when the criminals have preyed upon me and my life and my home to use for their own benefit.
The person in my home. I think was trying to get me upset or trying to make me cry and from that point on it various that point and the end of the day, I could definitely say was not like spending any time with my mother. Any member of my family or any friend I’ve ever had in my entire life. When my mother who knows the history of Gerard Oehler and the people who’ve broken and entered into my house and the items that I cherish that were stolen. I was really, really looking forward to my birthday to being at the Ritz and for making great memories with my mother.
What I’m about to say is even more weird at dinner time. My mother who was a constant reminder of etiquette and manners, ethics, morals and religion forgot to say grace at dinner and then had quite a bit of problems trying to remove the meat off of the lamb shank. I remember in the past when I was young, always asking my mother how to do this how to do that, especially during meals for dinners at restaurants.
A conversation was very quiet. Not just because of live music but I honestly don’t think there were memories to share with this person. What is even more weird, we went outside. You know the wraparound lanai with the sofas and chairs on the Ritz first floor. Well it was still light outside. So we sat for a little while and I thought this was when we could really talk. But all this person wanted to do was talk to me about business, there was an offer put on the table that I run the Marco Island area for business and babysitting and the assistant director of a tender loving care service and it worked two years without a paycheck to make sure my mom’s business was on track. I constructed concentrated on marketing websites, creating documents, forms, orientation materials assisted in creating and implementing exclusive sitting service for one of the major hotels in Naples. And was well aware of the workings of a business, let alone my mother’s business survive helped her on and off since the implementation of her business in 1990. The prospect of Marco Island, and working with the hotels is an exciting prospect. However, this person Wanda talked to me about having one section separate from all the rest of the business but here’s where got very weird. I wasn’t supposed to use credit cards so could the money couldn’t be traced I needed to use her telephone number instead of mine and higher. The babysitters myself implement everything necessary for creating a business but I wasn’t allowed to use a business plan. I wasn’t allowed to use the materials I gained and researched while working for my mother for two years as far as advertising and keeping the information of the babysitting business. Very low-key as far as taxes and other necessary accounting practices. This woman and I had a very different view on what was necessary, what was ethical, and what was legitimate for running a business. Can’t say for certain that this person was acting more like someone who ran a business in a Third World country, but it sure seemed to go against the principles, ethics policies and procedures. My mother and I had discussed when working together on her business in Naples. For a moment. It almost seemed like Gerard Oehler or his group of people like his friend from Boston who told me about businesses that were stolen and run illegitimately for money laundering and for pure profit at the expense of legitimate businesses in the area. Another weird thing was the girl who is eavesdropping sitting to chairs over, she had brown hair in a ponytail. She was Caucasian shed a pink patterned dress with gold and white shoes chat actually looked very familiar almost like a person named Jenny that I actually babysat for a few times. Once at the end of Naples on fifth and one other time at her home. This person was very interested in my mother’s business and what was necessary to run such a business. I thought at the time should make a great partner for my mother’s business but I never had any notion she may have been gleaning information to start or run a competitive business. All I can remember of her was that her husband was in construction and she shall work for a dentist.
After being at the Ritz, we went by my and France condo on the beach and my mother was kind enough to take some pictures of me on the beach to remember the moment and my birthday. We then left to go to my condo and have cake and here is once again for the person acted nothing like my mother. An argument erupted where I actually had someone try to tell me they wanted to leave and let me have cake my birthday cake all by myself. I’m assuming this person was once again trying to make me cry just like they did before when they were at my condo and had to pick on me concerning the lock situation and trying to prevent criminals from entering and stealing from me.
I feel victorious in a way because I was able to divert the situation and for once the bully did not. When she could not jump up and down and say she made me cry. My birthday.
As you can tell there are bits and pieces of my birthday that I will remember forever. The tradition of going to the Ritz Carlton for dinner at the grill is one of my favorites times to spend with my mother and often times with one additional friend. Blowing a candle making a wish to get into at my home, but I was able to do at dinner makes me hope wishes and dreams still come true. As you may know, I love movies and silver spot as one of my favorite places to enjoy a great movie.
But I will also remember is that someone very focused on my mother’s business comes into my life for their own selfish intent and for that, trying to ruin a birthday, or any day, is completely acceptable. To this person has systematically tried to separate me not only for my mother and her business but from any success that my mother and our business should have. There will be a day of reckoning. Perhaps not till you don’t make it to heaven. But one day the people who lie, cheat and steal. There has to be a day when they are stopped.
so her eis teh question pose…. are these freaks jsut acting…. are they conartist who intentionaly try to act liek other people.. dress up liek other people.. for what .. stealing birthday presnets.. stealing idenities… i mean they fake and lie and cheat for much smaller prizes…
i remember one year i got a present.. it was in a louis vitton… box… actualy igot the box and i got soem plants in it… hummm who get the real prensent… imposters who break nto my home.. eat my food… or what? oh wait the sme freaky girls who will wear someoen elses clothes.. adn steal ther jewlery.. to make the con complete…. teh frau complete…. teh denitytheft complete…
and i have mentioned many time s before it is not just one perspn… it is a wellorganized group.. oen tha twill make sur ei ma out of tthe way… go thogh aor steal my possessions.. dress up llike or be teh actress.. imen conartist.. who needs to pretend to be someone she is not… and for what… why???? whay cant anyoen stop them! HELP!